As seen on Dear Chiefs Podcast. Loving a firefighter is not always easy. It's messy and complicated some days. There will be times when your partner is called away on duty, leaving you to fend for yourself. There will be times when they are exposed to danger and trauma. And there will be times when they are simply exhausted from their work. This No BS guide will give you tried and true tips from two seasoned fire wives to support your firefighter AND yourself while navigating this fire family life.